So I don't really know what I'm feeling right now. I had my baby shower today. I have two kids, ages 16 and 11. Since my husband and I had our first baby at 17, I never had a baby shower. No one celebrates teen pregnancy lol, and I still had things for my second daughter. So this was my first baby shower. This morning getting ready I start receiving messages from the few friends I invited all telling me something came up and they couldn't make it. Which kinda bummed me out. Then my best friend text me and tells me she is not coming as well. Says she didn't realize she had reserved a boat at the lake for a family day on the same day as the baby shower. That her husband has to leave for work for 2 months on Monday, so they would be going to the lake instead. Both of our husbands work oilfield, so it's common for them to go on long jobs. We've been talking about this shower for two weeks, so I find it hard to believe she just forgot. I think it's a lot more likely that he found out today that he has to leave on Monday, today was the only day to do something, so they just figured they would tell me they had already made plans and forgot. I was really hurt....cried a little. I ended up having a nice shower. It was a few of my husband's family members and my mom with two of my sister in laws. I got nice gifts, everything was beautiful. I so appreciate the people who came and what all they did for me. But I was disappointed that none of my people could be bothered to show, especially my best friend. Am I being a total turd? I would never ask her to cancel her day for my 2 hr baby shower....maybe I just wanted her to want to...I don't know. This is my caboose baby and the only baby shower I will have....Am I being stupid for being hurt and disappointed by her?