So my boyfriend is trying to eat waffles and syrup in my room. We are trying to get rid of roaches and i HATE sticky things so i told him to be careful. He got so pissed off and said “I’m not your bitch stop talking to me like i am” “I’m not a child don’t talk to me like one” “I don’t want to be controlled” etc. It’s such bullshit. I’m pissed af rn because he’s literally arguing about it and trying to say i’m “controlling him” by telling him to be careful in my room. I know how he eats and he usually does get syrup in places other than his plate and mouth. He ain’t careful, otherwise i wouldn’t have told him to be. According to him, i’m trying to “set rules” for him. And he don’t like it. It sounds to me like he don’t want to be out of control.