Dont feel pregnant😞

Bonnie

So im 11 weeks 6 days today my last apointment was over a month ago when originally we thought i was 10 weeks but ultrasound showed 8 weeks 2 days. I just had a baby in January and before her i had a missed miscarriage, i go to the dr tomorrow and im terrified i dont feel pregnant the only thing that makes me a little hopeful which is very embarrassing is when i cough or sneeze i pee myself. Has anyone ever felt not pregnant and things ended up being ok? Ive also had alot of stress this past month as my grandmother passed away my husband aunt is in ICU