Serious question ladies

So Ever since I’ve been with my BD for the past nearly 3 years about each time we have sex i end up bleeding because i feel him go deep inside me. He is on the longer side of size when it comes to his 🍌 and sometimes i think i feel him bang against my cervix and that’s when I’ll know I’m going to have a mess to clean up when we are done

The amount i bleed is like a light period day

I just want to know is this normal? Or not? Am i ok? Does it or has it happen to any of you?

Last time i got a pap or checked things came out fine i just never asked about this