I will be 5 weeks tomorrow! It was a bit of a surprise baby. I honestly wasn’t trying but I’ve been in school and work, and was on antibiotics in July and low and behold I honestly forgot that it interferes with the pill. So here I am pregnant with baby #3! My birthday is tomorrow and my family doesn’t know yet and honestly I really don’t want to tell them, at least not yet! They are going to want to buy me a drink. What do I say???? I don’t want to tell them the news yet because everyone is so judgmental and I don’t want my birthday ruined with their comments. I told my husband I need to take a test because I’m afraid to tell him too because he gets stressed out and I don’t want to make things worse. We have had some marital issues lately and have been working on things and recently he’s been more loving and we had lots of make up sex lately! Lol. But I truly was stressed with finals and work and everything else and never thought I would get pregnant now. But I am taking it as an unexpected blessing! What do I say to my family and how should I tell my husband?