Did anyone else not feel connected in early pregnancy due to miscarriage fear?

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When did you feel connected to your baby?
I’m only 10w4d and my fear of miscarriage is taking away all of the joy right now. I don’t want to get too excited or connected because it’s too early and risky. 
Did anyone else feel this way?

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I started to not worry as much when he started moving but even after he was born I stilled worried a lot. I didn't really feel connected to my son until he was about 3-4 months old.

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To me I feel disconnected till I name baby. It’s weird. But as soon as I name baby I feel way different about the kiddo growing inside me. Makes it more real. I can relate to my other children and know the babe growing inside me will be just like them one day. 
I’m 22 weeks with #3, another girl, and it’s driving me crazy we haven’t named her yet. Cuz I’m obviously busy with the other two I’ve wanted to name her for ever so I can start that process when I have time. Buuuut hubs isn’t on board with ANY name I’ve been suggesting. 😭🤷🏼‍♀️ 
So maybe think of names? I know you won’t know gender for a little while longer but never to early to start dreaming!

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Yep, that was me! But I’ve also had four MC in the past so I know exactly what pain, both physically and mentally, is connected with losing a child and it’s not something I ever want to face again. I’m lucky enough to have ultrasound machines at my job and if I was ever desperate for reassurance, I would take a look at the baby. I’m now 25 weeks with a precious and ACTIVE little boy. I call him by name, talk to him, and have my other children interact with him as well. I feel like it’s so much more real once you start feeling and seeing your baby’s movements. Don’t be too hard on yourself. What you’re feeling is totally normal. Good luck!

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I did. My mom had two miscarriages and I was so convinced when I was first pregnant that I would too since she did. It was taking my joy as I would worry excessively about every little thing and I was afraid to even be excited about the baby because I was afraid I’d lose her. I’m 40 weeks now though and she’s just fine. 😊 I wish you good luck with your baby and, even though it’s super hard, try not to worry yourself sick like I did.

Did anyone else not feel connected in early pregnancy due to miscarriage fear?

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