I just met this guy few weeks ago. I didn’t feel so great with him, but the only problem is he doesn’t want to leave in America and doesn’t want to have kids at all. I really want to have a family and he knows about it. He wants me to get birth control and I don’t want. He can use protection if he wants, but I don’t want to put more hormones in my body. I’m already 31 years old and I don’t want in the future have problems with my fertility. I want to have a relationship with him, I just don’t know if I’ll waste my time just because he doesn’t want the same things than me. Have you ever been with someone that start the things the same way and after they change their mind??? Do you think men can change their mind after they meet the right woman??? I know time will tell... I just hoping things will change in the future coz I never feel so good when I’m with him.