So my daughter’s dad’s girlfriend is currently pregnant with a girl, this is my BD’s 2nd child (our daughter being his first). Our daughter is 4 years old and he hardly sees her. He was supposed to be getting her on my weekends to work (every other) but here lately, ever since we went on vacation the end of June, he hasn’t seen her. I’m friends with him and his BM on Facebook, and he constantly posts about his unborn child.

And NEVER posts about our daughter. It really aggravates me because he seems to have forgotten that he has another daughter who deserves his attention too. she’s always asking why she can’t go see him and i keep having to make up excuses to not hurt her feelings. I guess, what i’m getting at here is; how do you guys handle these situations? She’s getting older and she’s understanding more and more and i don’t know how to keep making excuses for him.