this is me

I waited until i was in love to lose my virginity. i knew exactly who i wanted to do it with and how. i remember thinking i was going to be so in love and it would feel magical. but then i did it when i was shitfaced at a party. since then i kept asking myself “why limit myself to just boys?” i do believe in love is love and you fall in love with someone and not their gender. so i started sleeping with girls. i do enjoy homosexual sex and heterosexual sex but i can only see being with a girl as a one night stand and not as a relationship. i only see myself with a man. i know i’m bisexual, but am i if i only want a relationship with a guy?

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Sa

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You are bisexual because you enjoy sex with both. But you could be bisexual hetero-romantic which means you like only the opposite sex romantically, so the description makes you bisexual hetero-romantic. You might actually be surprised and fall in love with someone who happens to be a girl someday you never know, or you could fall victim to something called heteronormativity and not know it, it’s when you’re convinced you like and must be interested in only men because society makes it out to be like they’re the only ones who you can be in a relationship and they can solve your problems and your needs and all activities that couples do must be between a man and a woman. That’s not true, if you think you’re not confused at all then just stay happy with who you are. If you think that there may be a mental block, something stopping you because of outside ideas and judgments then rethink it all.