Long story sorry ...my husband and I recently got married back in May, And i just had our baby three weeks ago ... so back in oct I noticed he was acting a bit strange (had his phone with him at all times, even when he got up in the middle of the night to use the bathroom he would take his phone) but I didn’t think much of it because I trusted him ... anyways ,moving forward to a few weeks ago he was showing me a picture on his phone and a Snapchat came in and he quickly took his phone back which I found weird.. then I noticed that whenever he is using that app if I get too close to him he’ll exit the app right away or turn around so I won’t see his phone ... I started to have a odd feeling about it so I decided to check it out for myself, mind you he always looks through my phone, reads my messages which I don’t mind since I’m not hiding anything so I figured I was just being paranoid and I wouldn’t find anything .... well to my surprise I found out he’s been talking to his ex.... and she somehow found out he is now married and she asked him about it And he denied it .. i also noticed that he was the one who reached out to her in the first place ..she also asked if I was “okay with them talking “ he said I was ... mind you I had no idea.. i couldn’t keep it to myself and confronted him about it .At first he denied it, then he tried to pin it on her by saying that she’s the one who keeps messaging him (which is a lie I saw that he messaged her first ) and later said he had to keep in contact because when they were together two years ago she was depressed and later said he only reached out to her because he was “lonely”. Worst part is that they’ve been talking for months. I really don’t know what to do at this point, he’s acting as if nothing ever happened meanwhile I cry almost every night because I feel betrayed and cheated i mean he didn’t even apologize because he said it wasn’t cheating. I don’t know what to do, or how to go about this at this point, I can’t even look at him without feeling awful and thinking about how he denied his wife.. any advice please? Thank you