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Your baby won’t hate you at all! You don’t want your baby growing up thinking that relationships are like this. That is unhealthy for you and your baby. Don’t make threats but just say you can’t continue to live in a toxic environment. Is there anyone you could stay with so you can have a trial separation? Be strong and don’t put up with this just because he’s making nasty threats to you. A child will be far happier having a happy Mummy in a nice happy home than having mummy and daddy together but arguing and a stressful atmosphere x
At a loss 😢
Me and my partner have been arguing constantly for the past month and I have given him chance after chance to change his behaviour. He swears at me and shouted at me infront of little one and I just can’t take it. I have told him to change or we just need to break up on good terms but whenever I mention breaking up he starts saying horrible things like ‘I will see him more then you’ ‘ I will take you to court’ and things to almost blackmail me which then scares me and upsets me into staying.
He starts saying things like my son will hate me and I will be the reason his parents are separate which obviously then upsets me so much. I suffer with depression and anxiety anyway so this is just making it 10 times worse! I don’t want my baby being brought up in a house of fighting and arguing, I can see him watching us argue already and worried he is taking it in.
On top of this he lost his job months ago and hasn’t been making an effort to find anything as says we get more being on benefits which I can’t stand!!! And we both don’t drive and I have actually made and effort and passed my theory and applied to college to better myself even tho I’m the one that had the baby 5 months ago!!!!
Really at a loss and don’t know who to talk too I’m so scared my baby will hate me 😭😢
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