So annoyed w my husband

My birthday, our anniversary, and his birthday are being celebrated together. We don’t have many funds, so my husband was saying this week we would celebrate my birthday and next week we’d celebrate his. So he kept asking what I wanted to do. I’m very antisocial so i told him over and over and over it that I wanted to keep it small. A little cake, balloons, and food and music at our house. Invite like 6 people at most. I had to work on my birthday which was yesterday, til 1 am so we’re celebrating today on my day off. Well turns out my husband preferred to wake up at 8 am, Mad that I didn’t wake up earlier. He invited like 20 people and we’re going to the mountains to have a “picnic”. Then the shooting range. Anyways he invited a ton of people, spent like 300$ on food and stuff and woke up this morning complaining to me that we didn’t any more money, that should’ve woken up earlier. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 I’m so annoyed right now.