Trouble wiping 22 weeks

Okay so this is going to sound weird I guess, but I’m hoping others have gone through the same thing! Lately I’ve been struggling to clean myself off totally after going to the bathroom because my freaking vagina has gotten so “fat.” It’s so puffy down there, not like painful, but just squishy and super puffy lol. I peed, wiped (not well enough), got up, and then there was a wet spot on my underwear. I feel NOTHING come out of my actual vagina. But where my urethra is, it’s always wet😒 does anyone have any tips? I wear panty liners and they help but still.