I am 32 weeks pregnant. I been with my unborn son's father for three years. The last year we been on & off. Mainly because he hasn't been stepping up as a boyfriend on being there for me and I often don't feel appreciated or loved. We got pregnant back on New Year's <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">eve</a> and realized it about a month or so later.

There was a point after finding out that I was pregnant where we called it quits. We were often arguing & just not feeling right with one another. I often felt like I was the only one trying to make things work.

Lately these past 4 months we been happy & good with one another. Little arguments here & there, but we were actually feeling loved & nothing to break us up.

We decided to name our son after him, which he desperately wants. First & last name with Jr added ofcourse. I always wanted to name my son Jack & with my last name since we are not married. I feel in the future we will one day get married but still have my doubts. I just don't want to give my son a name that doesn't match mine.

Going past that, I just found out today that my boyfriend's family wants a blood test to prove that this is his child. I never thought they would think that about me, but I guess they do. It will explain why they don't call or check up on me, compared how I was to past pregnancies.

I guess being hurt & finding this out now... would I be wrong on not wanting to name my son after his father? Not wanting to give his first or last name to him? I know 100% for sure it's his, but I'm just hurt that they & him want a blood test.

I am 100% for providing a blood test after he is born, but feel if I have to do that then I should name him what I want & not after his father. ADVICE PLEASE

Should I give him the satisfaction of naming my our son after him, & giving him his last name even after they all want a blood test? Or should I just name him what I want & hurt his father because he doubted it was his?