So, I don’t know what to do right now. I picked up smoking cigarettes last July and I quit recently. BUT my fiancé, who only started smoking because of ME, won’t stop smoking. Plus the thing that makes it worse is that it’s a Juul. Not only do we spend soooo much money on juul pods WEEKLY/MONTHLY. (It’s $21 for 4 pods, in which he goes through in 3 days tops) but it’s way more addictive than cigarettes.

Anyways, we’re TTC (trying to conceive) and I feel like we should BOTH stop smoking before we create a new life to take care of yet he doesn’t want to even TRY because his coworkers do it too and it’s just a nasty habit.

I’m considering hiding the juul from him when he comes home tonight. Is that wrong of me considering it’s my fault he’s addicted or is it okay bc it’s not for me, it’s for our future?? In dire need of help. Anything is appreciated besides hate/nasty comments. Thanks!!