I can’t get wet ?

Let me start off by saying that I noticed this problem when I first lost my virginity (2 years ago). I realized from the beginning that my body doesn’t react the way I’d like it too. I can’t get wet or start wet if I do get wet when sleeping with somebody. Because of this after sex I’m usually sore for the next day or two. And not in the way I’d like to be. I’ve been too embarrassed to tell my doctor or even ask about it. I don’t know what I can do because I want to be able to do more with my partner and feel better.

Ultimately, I feel broken because it feels like I’m not doing something right