So my daughter’s father and I had been on and off for several years. I ended up staying at his house about a month ago. We were not together at this time.

I woke up and he asked me a couple of very specific questions that he shouldn’t even know about, so I asked him if he went through my phone. He said yes. When I asked why, he said he just wanted to know if I “wanted to be with him again”. He went through MONTHS of messages in my texting, fb messenger, instagram, twitter, snapchat, pictures, recently deleted pictures, and my notes where I had written personal things.

He saw where I had vented about him with my best friend and my mom, where both of them had said he is a shitty dad and a shitty person. He saw where I had attempted to “talk to” someone else but I still wasn’t over him so it didn’t go anywhere.

He immediately put us in a relationship on facebook after that and now holds everything he read against me.

I feel like he had no right to go through my phone, especially when he won’t even get his out in front of me, not even for a second. I’m frustrated because he holds everything against me, hurt that he went through all of that and now is in my head and knows everything super personal (mainly my feelings on really bad days) ☹️

So do I have a right to be upset or should I just let it go? He gets mad when I bring it up but it just really bothers me.