My best friend and I have been friends for 10+ years, we met in high school. We know more about one another than our s/o, and she has been married for a few years... A few years back she had a mc due to getting pregnant while having an iud. She admitted to me she wasnt phased by it she even felt somewhat relieved when it happened she wasnt ready for another baby thats why she had the iud I never blamed her and understood her feelings toward it. I had a mmc in march after ttc for a few months and she was very supportive always checking on me even though she lives on the opposite side of the country. I got pregnant quickly after my mmc and around 9 weeks she came to visit and stayed with me. She continuously made comments like i know how rough that second pregnancy can be, which in reality was her 3rd pregnancy she was referring to. I dont think she was doing it intentionally, but she said it so many times and eventually I got mad and said its my third pregnancy, and then yelled 3. I was hormonal she imediatly apologised and i felt bad for yelling at her but its hard especially when someone I am so close with ignored the existence of my child regaurdless if in heaven or not. How does everyone deal with stuff like this?