So I had my drs appointment today at 23 weeks and my dr asked me if I wanted my tubes tied after birth. I’ll admit I am drawn to the idea of it (this is our 4th pregnancy and we for sure don’t want more), but I’ve heard so many bad things about the side effects afterwards and I don’t like that if I do have bad effects it’s non reversible. So now we’re thinking of other forms possible birth control. I had an iud (mirena) 7 years ago and I bled very heavily for a whole month, the dr said my body was rejecting it and I had to get it removed. I’m really confused about all the different options which I will probably discuss more with my dr at my next appointment. What have you guys tried and what worked for you?