So I’m pregnant. I’m 20 years old and carrying a human. The father doesn’t want it. He said that this is a bad time to have a kid. (By the way me and him are no longer together) I want the baby all I ever wanted was to be a mom. When I told him that I was pregnant he immediately suggested abortion. He basically said that if I did this for him that he would get back together with me and we will get engaged and he’ll marry me. I feel like he’s just making empty promises so that I’ll get rid of the baby. I know that if I go through with this I will never be able to forgive myself. I won’t be able to live with myself. I know I’ll regret it. But he constantly in my ear telling me to get an abortion. I really need advice I don’t know how to handle this situation.

UPDATE: me and him have had plenty of sit down talks and he just keeps saying the same thing like implying that this will ruin my life. And that he won’t stick around. Then he’ll get mad when I say I want to keep it. He said that I shouldn’t do that to the child. That it should grow up w 2 parents. I’m completely on my own at this point