I'm so confused! Back and forth.

Madi • 💙 Sep.05.2020 🌈 - 🕊️ Nov.27.2022 👼 - 💙 Sep.12.2024 🌈

I had a transvaginal ultrasound after abdominal pain on 8/8/19. They measured a gestational sac at 6mm mean sac diameter, and fetal pole at 4mm which she had to press the probe a certain way to find (they didn't say what size the yolk sac was) and my HCG was 19,461. There was no heartbeat so they did another scan on 8/12/19 at a different hospital (lower quality equipment) I could tell the lady did not press the probe the same way as the last, and she didnt end up finding the fetal pole which led my OB to believe I am miscarrying. But the gestational sac had a mean sac diameter of 16mm, yolk sac was 3mm, and my HCG was 48,962.

I made progress they just didnt see the fetal pole that time. I feel like she just didnt know how to find it. I'm so worried and confused. The last few days have been back and forth between being hopeful and hopeless. I have gone between thinking I miscarried and thinking the 2nd sonographer was just wrong. What do you girls think? Any similar stories?