My first pregnancy, I gave birth at 31 weeks and spent 49 days in the nicu with my baby. Now I am pregnant again and my first baby is 15 months old.

Hubby wants to go out of town when I am 31 weeks pregnant. We have taken many more precautions with this pregnancy to prevent preterm labor—cerclage, injections, etc. But this would leave me home to provide all the care for our toddler, the dog, the house, and work full time.....am I being unreasonable for being totally pissed that he’d even consider going out of town at the same point in my pregnancy when I previously gave birth?