Help please!

My SO and I are getting married September 3rd. Is it disrespectful for me not to take his last name? I dont want to change my name.

Pros?

Cons?

Please help!! šŸ˜­šŸ˜­šŸ˜­

*Iā€™ve had this conversation with him. He doesnt mind me not changing my last name!! But his family is making a huge deal out of this, so i want to know others peoples opinions šŸ™„*