This is super long but I could use some opinions... so I have a storage unit a town over from my college and my housemate K agreed to take some stuff there for me as well as some of his own stuff because I was trying to get home early, because of a commitment I had. I literally checked multiple times that he was ok taking the stuff by himself and he said yes every time, I drive home and we realized I still had the keys, so we made a plan that once he was done with his homework and finals we would each drive around an hour to meet up so I could give him the keys instead of me driving 2 to my college and the 45 min to my storage unit, and then the 2 45 back which would basically be a whole day including the loading and unloading. he says it’s should be fine! But of course he tells his parents about it and because they seem to think he can’t make his own decisions they always feel the need to step in, and his mom tried to guilt trip me. after making sure multiple times that he was ok with this plan and then finding a way to adjust when I messed up,I’m livid because I called him over 12 times to sort this shit out between us and he just didn’t answer me. I know the first few times he wasn’t asleep because he read my message when I messaged him about not talking to me. I feel like a shitty person for expecting this off him. This morning I got a long ass message saying this was him ‘standing up for himself’ and that he wouldn’t be answering any texts or calls, I drove out there today hoping to be able to talk to him in person, only to find him gone and his dad packing his stuff up, so then of course I somehow ended up having a screaming match with his father to the point where I was shaking I was so upset. And of course I dropped a box that had a mix of out kitchen stuff and only my stuff broke. I got into a fight with his dad because the man literally watched me drop my blender outside and saw it shatter and literally just goes “oops” and keeps walking, then he tried to talk to me like I was going to be upset about what just happened and everything else that had been happening, he had the nerve to tell me to “never talk to him like that again” I am not his child and I’m an adult so of course that just made it worse. while I understand that he’s stressed out with school work it doesn’t take away from the fact that he literally at the age of 23 had his mother message me to deal with his problems, if he’d done it himself I wouldn’t have cared. But now I don’t want to live with him next semester so I have to find somewhere else to live but now I feel guilty because I know this will upset him? But i don’t know if I can live with someone who can’t talk to me himself. This is also not the first time he hasn’t communicated his issues properly.