Belly pouch.

To anyone who has previous children even more so having a c-section ended up with this pouch? It’s obviously gotten worse as I’ve gained more weight. But since falling pregnant I’ve tried limiting my exercises now. But my big question is when does this look more round and pregnant then fat and saggy. I’m only 12 weeks but I didn’t even show with my first until 23weeks and I’m too scared to tell anyone I’m pregnant incase they look at my belly or want belly photos. 😭😭😭