Hi ladies, I need your advice on something. I’m going to make a long story short. My husband gives his parents money every single month. Why? I don’t know, his parents guilt him into it saying that’s how they raised him. We are talking $500 a month every single month (never missed a month) for 5 years. Let me say, they both work FULL TIME jobs and make money so it’s not like they are disabled or struggling. Also my husband is 34 years old and has a 23 year old brother that LIVES with his parents but has never paid rent, they only ask the older son (my husband) who has a family and we don’t live with them (we have a 9 month old and another on the way!) This irritates me enough as it’s been going on for far too long. He says he’s going to stop when our second baby gets here (February 2020) but it’s hard to believe him after last night.

Last night his parents came over. We live in a apartment complex where there is a designated guest parking and then there’s resident parking in a garage structure. His parents always park in the resident parking even though they are guest because it’s a shorter walk. They are lazy and overweight. I’ve told them multiple times, they tow here so don’t park in the resident parking, park downstairs in the guest parking! They never listen. Until last night.

They were over watching the UFC fight and playing with their granddaughter. When it was time to go home (10pm) they leave and guess what? Their car got towed because they parked in another residents parking spot! The resident probably came home and found someone parked in their spot and called the towing company. They come back inside freaking out how their car got towed. Well I told them so 🤷🏻‍♀️

Here’s the shittiest part, they clearly were stressing and call the towing company to confirm they have their car, yup it’s gonna cost $400 to reclaim it. MY FUCKING HUSBAND GETS HIS WALLET AND GIVES THEM HIS DEBIT CARD AND TELLS THEM TO PAY FOR IT WITH HIS CARD AND THEY TAKE IT WITHOUT HESITATION. My husbands like “it’s our fault, we invited you guys over” ladies I’m livid!!!!! We are already tight on money and have a lot of expenses coming up (new baby, my daughters first birthday trip which he offered to pay for his parents tickets to Disneyland because that’s where we are taking her for her first birthday) I mean it’s ridiculous I don’t want to support someones lifestyle anymore. I don’t know if it’s hormonal but I’m seriously considering divorce. He seems to put his parents before his own family financially while we live in a one bedroom apartment with a kid and another on the way but his parents live in a comfortable 4 bedroom home.

THEY KNEW NOT TO PARK THERE!! We’ve told them multiple times, and they get inside the resident parking by following another resident through the gate as they don’t have a garage opener to get into the resident parking. THEY DO THIS!!!

Ladies, I’m freaking out. This has to STOP!!! When I first met him he told me he was helping his parents get back on their feet, THAT WAS 5 years ago. His parents don’t need help anymore they work full time and like I said make good money!! What the hell would you do? I’m at my wits end.