We’re expecting number 4 and My in laws are very opinionated and have told us multiple times not to have anymore kids so what we did was we had our oldest had her the ultrasound pics she said “look this is my baby brother or sister my mom has a baby in her belly” my mother in law actually laughed and said she had a feeling I was pregnant and my father in law said absolutely nothing at all🤷‍♀️ well at least they weren’t rude to our faces that’s all that matters to me I was terrified to tell them😬 so I guess you can say it when better than I thought my mother in law was asking tons of questions she’s a RN so she was concerned about me having migraines so often but they’ve subsided as times going on