So Imma tell you the whole story of my MIL because i am absolutely fed up. We had an awesome relationship at first until i became pregnant. She first started saying the baby was not my fiances witch my daughter is his twin now and i gave this man my v card and never cheated on him so.... Then i became really tired during my second trimester i started taking naps around 1 after waking up at 7 and dealing with a toddler. She told my fiance that my vitamins are supposed to keep me awake that i wasnt taking them. I told him no thats not what they do and she started crying playing victim saying im making her out to be a liar. Then she gets mad i wanted to breastfeed my daughter because she couldn't feed her if i did. Ok fast forward to my daughter being 2 weeks old. My fiance at the time lived with his mother and payed majority of the bills. We came over for about a week. First night she took my daughter and gave her baby food, pie filling, and tea without asking. My daughter had a stomach ache after but she insisted it wasnt because of the food. My fiance talked to her about it and she said she understood but i noticed she kept doing it! Talk after Talk! Everytime we went to his house my daughter got a stomach ache but never when it was just me and her so i knew she was still giving her food behind my back. She said she shouldn't have to ask and that shes was just going to take custody of my child away from me. The day that broke our relationship forever was because she came home to 1 pot 2 bowls and a cup in the sink from what we just ate out of. we were giving our daughter a bath because she had a blowout so we hadn't washed them yet. She screamed at him calling us lazy and me lazy because at my age she she had 2 jobs and took care of her kids without the father . Also at my age she was doing cocaine and lost custody to her kids so i mean she wasnt no where near perfect and it was the 70's. She also took all our money. Me and my fiance saved an assload of money amd she came in his room took all of it. He gets a check for his autism she took that. His dad sent money numerous occasions for him to get his permit she would never take him but would take her friend all around town to get juuls and vapes. My mom had to take him at 18 to his because his mother wouldnt. She started a physically fight with him and called the police because i went and tried to talk to her about her over stepping and what i wasnt ok with. She started yelling at me he defended me so she hit him with a log. Not a stick a log. While the baby was there. She told the cops he was trying to kill her we had cops all lined down the road as me and him sat on the porch watching them come. This woman had not a single scratch on her so they took her ass to jail for domestic violence because my fiance had markss from the log. She was the prime aggressor. She got out on bail and claimed she had a 500$ light bill from us and had no money after paying it so my fiance gave her some. She didnt have a 500$ Light bill it was more like 187$ and we payed it because we have it where it automatically came out of our accounts payday. (Im over our finaces and my fiance didn't know i had it set like that until after he gave her the money.) Now she wants to see my daughter on her first birthday in all honesty i want her to have nothing to do with my daughter or me. I dont care if my fiance wants a relationship with her but im done with her. Would you let her around your child?