I Just Want to be a Momma

My husband and I have been married since 7/1/18. We always used protection before we were married. After our wedding, we quit all of the precautionary measures since we were now married and weren't worried about having a baby before marriage. For over a year, we haven't necessarily been trying, but we haven't been trying to prevent pregnancy either. With that being said, we have sex when we have sex - we don't go out of our way to have sex when I'm ovulating, I don't track anything, etc. Hubby says "when it happens, it happens" Had anyone else gone by this motto & gotten pregnant, if so how long did it take before you got your BFP? I'm ready for a baby, but obviously am not going to go against my husband's wishes and am going to just let it be & see what happens.