Planning our Gender reveal help!

Soooo I did the pamorama blood test for gender and we should be finding out within a week or two. We are going to pick up the envelope and are debating on finding out the gender with just the two of us and having a reveal for our family and friends still. Would anyone recommend just waiting to find out with everyone at our gender reveal three weeks later? Or should we find out privately a couple weeks before our gender reveal party!? Keep in mind our parents don’t know we’re pregnant yet! I’m 10 weeks and we plan to wait until I’m 12 weeks to tell them. Not sure what makes more sense! Phoning a friend!! Lol