Who tf understands men?

So last year I decided to go on a weight loss journey. I was 230 pounds, my heaviest and I dropped 40 pounds. I'm not done losing weight and haven't yet reached my goal. I had to halt for awhile due to a pregnancy, I just had my baby boy 3 weeks ago. Anyways. I was talking about how I'm going to start my diet again this coming week and my s.o replied "I thought you were done?" I said "no, not even close, I need to lose some more." He then said "No, I think you're fine." I'm at 185. No where near my goal weight. I started feeling he was getting a bit insecure when I started losing the weight. He kept bringing me fast food when I asked him not to and would get my snacks, like chocolate. I almost felt like he was sabotaging my weight loss. He noticed how my confidence changed. I started dressing in tighter clothes. I started to fix myselfup more and he noticed I was getting some looks from other guys in public. He would tell me then to how he thought I lost enough weight and should stop. I then ended up pregnant. I even joke around saying he got me pregnant on purpose because I was losing weight. He seems supportive of my journey but at the same time he seems to want me to stay how I was. Part of why I began to lose the weight is because I caught him looking at nearly naked sexy women on Instagram and I didn't feel sexy myself at all. I do feel like I'm getting a bit of petty revenge losing the weight and seeing him get jealous. Kind of like "you want sexy? I'll give you sexy." I will admit our sex life improved greatly. He's finding it even harder to keep his hands to himself. I have a very natural curvaceous figure and have always had very noticeable, "womanly" features. I thought sexy is what he wanted but he doesn't seem to like me getting there. So guys can look at sexy pornstar looking women but they don't want their own women looking like that? I'm so confused by men sometimes. 🤦