Abortion ?

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So I recently found out I’m pregnant with my ex bf we were together for about 2 years. He already moved back home to Arizona so I’m here in Cali. I haven’t told my parents yet I’m freaking out. I’m gonna turn 26 in a week... idk what to do. I want to keep it. But at the same time I am so terrified. Scared of being judged. The situation I’m in with my ex. I’m scared of any backlash I may face. Just don’t know what to do and don’t really have any one to talk about it with... please help...

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I firmly believe it is your choice! However, having an abortion just because you fear backlash is not a good reason and something you are bound to always regret, in my opinion! If you want to keep it, keep it! Don't let what other people may think or react in a way that dictates what you do. You are your own person so it's up to you!

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Girl keep the baby if you want it! Dont make your decisions on other people and do what makes you happy. That baby will love you and truly it's the best thing ever!

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Babies bring lots of joy. Your family will love the baby so much. 
I think you’re old enough where you won’t be judged. But don’t worry if they do. When you have your baby in your arms none of that will matter. 
Congratulations mama!!! 🎉👼🏼

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You are going to be judged either way. Being a mom is hard, especially if you don't have support but if you're willing to do it, go for it. If you don't think you're ready go for that as well.

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People are too busy worrying about what everyone else is thinking about them to think about what everyone else is doing😅 
My advice is make a logically well informed decision and don’t make an emotional decisions. Feelings lead us astray

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That choice is up to you, people will find a way to judge you no matter what you do so quit worrying about that. It sounds to me though, like you've already decided what you want to do, and I think if you were to get an abortion you would hold onto a lot of guilt and regret for a long time over it.

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If you want to keep it, keep it.  You’ll make it work, and I bet your parents will be thrilled to have a grandchild eventually (if not at first).  I don’t think there’s too much of a stigma around single moms anymore.  Good luck and congrats!!

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If you want to be a mother keep it, if you don’t want to be a mother have an abortion. You will be judged either way, in the end it’s your life and in the end no one cares as much as you believe they do.

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People don’t think like you’re suggesting anymore. And I think you want to hear to keep your baby or you wouldn’t be asking. Clearly you love him/her and will give a great life.

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You are 26, not 15. People will judge no matter what. Do what makes you the happiest. If you doubt aborting maybe it isn’t for you. Open up with your family. I am sure they will be very supportive!

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