What is the daddy/little thing all about

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Ann

Hi, I'm just curious what this whole this is all about. I've been aware for a while about the whole daddy thing for a while but I've never really looked into it in detail, and haven't even heard of "little" until I saw the title of this group. Could someone please explain, in detail what this thing is all about: what the roles are; what sort of activities take place; what it's like in the bedroom; anything else that I haven't thought of.

I absolutely won't judge, I just want to understand from the perspective of an actual little, rather than just googling it

Thank you 😊

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sk

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hey! i'm skyla, and i've been a little for a few years actually. i'm not really a little you probably want to hear from, because i'm not a typical little in all honesty.i don't fall into little space too often, or text in baby talk (i find it annoying to read that bullshit like it's another language, ya know?).being a little for me, is enjoying the things i did as a child, and doing that still. like, watching cartoons, drawing in coloring books, using a sippy cup, playing on swings, acting like brat and later being punished for it, and (most importantly) BEING TAKEN CARE OF. that is what most people seek out for this. it can help with anxiety and depression actually. for others, the daddy part and being punished can be a kink. i'm starting to fall into just a dom/sub instead of daddydom/littlegirl which is quite similar but not all the same.i think i'm heading in that direction, because i have a really hard time trusting others and being that vulnerable to someone. i don't know, it just feels less intimidating than ddlg for me. now don't get me wrong, ddlg is great, i just can't find the right person for me to be vulnerable like that and feel no judgement. also, ddlg is different for everyone. they can act more little, or less little (as in age wise), and other ones (like me) don't fall into little space all the time, while others do almost all the time. it's different for everyone. hope this helps.

Ha

Ha • Sep 11, 2019
☝️☝️this this very good description!! 👍👌🤗I feel same exactly w/ my experince & understanding all of this ..!🌹🍓🦇

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Hey nice to meet you! I’m a little and I have been one since the beginning of this year. I’m sorry if I leave some things out about what being a little is like, but here’s my personal experiences and what I’ve been through ^•^Being a little is about enjoying what it feels like to be a kid / baby again, you play with toys, colour or draw, watch little kids shows, eat kid snacks, drink from sippy cups and little cutlery, dress up to look adorable! Have a bunch of stuffed animals and toys to help you feel safe, there’s a lot more too. I am a age regressor which means that I don’t go into any sexual part of it because I use it as a coping mechanism for mental health reasons, and to just experience a better childhood than I had.You can also have a little age range which is a range that you regress to, like 0-3 so you don’t really speak and use pacifiers, or speak little words like a real babies do. 4-6 watches heaps of cartoons and colours heaps! And so on with the ages. There’s a bunch of things you can do to make yourself feel safe and happy in that headspace.It also helps if you have a baby sitter or a Daddy/Mummy/Caregiver, it’s nice because they can help you feel safe and get things ready such as food, drinks, put on shows and change your diaper if you use one, it also helps because you mightn’t want to interrupt your headspace by getting all those ready yourself. I really hoped this helped and I’m sorry if I left anything important out :))

Re

Re • Feb 10, 2020
There isn't a problem with it at all. I do it as well as a coping mechanism for severe PTSD and other mental health reasons. No harm to anyone else and if there is anyone out there that disagrees, doesn't like it, or thinks it's bad for us.... They are entitled to their own opinion. Don't let anyone talk down to you because you have a different way of handling what you have been through then they would/do.

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🌸 Keisha 🌸 • Aug 26, 2019
I use this as a coping mechanism to support me through mental health, it’s not sexual and helps me with mental breakdowns and just makes me happy in general..so if it’s helping me and not hurting anyone I don’t see the problem..

Je

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While the lifestyle varies from person to person- my particular instance is having a daddy that guided me into the lifestyle and helped me realize that I’m a little(that lives several states away) and my hubby being my physical Daddy that I’m with daily.