for context i’m transgender and gay. being gay, i would definitely date another transgender male, but just really don’t think i could go past anything but kissing. it’s just that i really find.. those parts to be very unappealing, and i can’t help it. i just feel like a bad person because i know that i could only be in a romantic relationship with another transgender person. and in a way it makes me feel.. transphobic? i don’t know. i just want to know if i’m actually a bad person for feeling like this or if it’s normal.