So my partner and I have been together now going on 4 yrs

He knew when we met I wanted kids one day in the future...

my words were exactly were

I want a marriage not just a wedding

I want a family not just a baby

I want a home not just a house

I want a future not just a dream.

At that time he agreed and in response he said I want that one day.

Now after all this time the talk of having a baby or pregnancy is becoming non existent and he asks me why would I want to have kids ?? and it feels like a forbidden subject.

He believes that marriage is just piece of paper.

Please no highly negative comments as I do love him I’ve just run out of direction to discuss the subject. Not planning on having a baby just yet either but talking about it with him seems like a touchy subject ....?