My husband doesn’t want to do things?

So, for the past four months or so, my husband has stopped wanting to do things with me. Every now and then he’ll want to go out to eat and we’ve even seen two movies in the past four months, but for the most part, day in and day out, he wants to stay home and watch television. I’ve talked to him several times about wanting to go out and do things together but he’s brushed me off every time. That’s the thing; he encourages me to go out and do things on my own, but he doesn’t want to go out and do things with me. He went out and had a fun day with his mom, but he doesn’t want to go out and do things with me. I’ve noticed that he now doesn’t even want to go grocery shopping with me; he’ll leave me at home early in the morning to go get groceries, and then will want to sit at the house all day. I’ve asked him repeatedly why he doesn’t want to do things with me and the only answer he can come up with is that he “just doesn’t want to do things and just wants to chill”. I have a feeling that he’s not being honest with me and there’s an underlying reason why he doesn’t want to do things with me. I’ve brought up possible reasons why and he’s denied every one; he said he DOES enjoy spending time with me, he’s NOT depressed, and he’s NOT worried about spending money.

I don’t understand why he doesn’t want to do things with me. I mean, we don’t even go out to eat except for maybe once or twice a month! He has no other explanation other than he “just doesn’t want to do things”. I’m getting frustrated and resentful that he doesn’t want to do things with me. Get jealous and angry when I see friends of ours going out and doing things together, but my husband doesn’t even want to go with me to the grocery store. I’m so lost on what to do.

He gets really angry when I asked for a reason why. He gets angry and says that I should do things on my own. This hurts and I don’t know why he doesn’t want to spend time with me. I want to go out and have fun, create memories and take pictures with the man I love, but he actively doesn’t want to go with me. Tells me he loves me and loves spending time with me, but just doesn’t want to go places?

I’m so sorry for the ramble. I don’t have anyone else to talk to. I feel like I’m at my breaking point; for four months we’ve sat in the house and done nothing. And what hurts the most is that I don’t think he’s being honest about why he doesn’t want to go anywhere with me 😞😞😞 any ideas? Any advice? I’m so lost.