Okay I’m very curious on this topic.

OK so tonight I was serving and when the table got ready for the check the wife had a rewards card that she wanted to use so I was putting the check in front of her to show her what her balance was left on the rewards points in me not thinking talking to her getting carried away her husband chewed me out by telling me that it was wrong of me to leave the check in front of a woman and like he kept going on and on and on about it like he was saying he wasn’t trying to be rude but just for future reference and it kind of got under my skin because I don’t agree with that like for instants me and my fiancé we rotated idc if he has $1 million we always rotate the checks just to be fair like I don’t feel like it’s fair for him to pay for everything especially since we’re together. I wanted to tell him sorry its not the 1900 anymore. Then I told him I work a couple jobs bc I have to pay for my school etc and then he told me that some people don’t even have jobs and honestly I’m surprised I held my mouth back bc I don’t believe in that shit. I believe in working together as a team not individually. Which got under my skin bc even though I work I have shit to pay for. So don’t always assume it really made me upset but that’s the world for you today