Long story, so bare with me. & no judgement. Things are difficult already. I just need advice, I guess. I’ve been married for almost 7 years. We filed for divorce last year due to infidelity on his part. He got a girlfriend before our divorce was finalized. They split & we decided we were going to try to save our marriage. We have two wonderful sons & for them, we thought we would try because we aren’t too fond of being apart either. A few weeks go by, he gets a text saying she’s pregnant.. I backed off & let them decide what they were going to do. They never got back together & I told him I would stick around no matter what the circumstance was, because it happened when we were separated. Surprise, I end up pregnant as well.. (again, no judgement. I was on the pill. Definitely a surprise.) well, fast forward- here we are, he has a 1 month old with her, & I’m due in 9 weeks.. I want him to spend time with his daughter of course, but she only allows it to happen at her house, & I’m not allowed anywhere near.. when he’s over there, we don’t talk nor text.. he won’t respond & his reasoning is he’s with his daughter, he doesn’t want to be on his phone. When he’s with me, everything is perfect. He’s not on his phone with me either.. he does get upset with me when I express my uneasiness about the situation.. I’m just stuck. I have my whole heart & mind into this, I don’t want to lose him & complete my divorce.. I just need advice. A helpful, positive outlook.

If you’ve read this far, thank you so much..