When did you ladies feel connected to your pregnancy?

Not quite sure how to word this, but think you’ll understand what I mean... I am 9 weeks along and still not really feeling “connected” to baby. I know I am still very early, but I want to be in love and have a bond while I’m pregnant! Did the connection come later on for you all? I am juuust now starting to get a tiny little bump, so hopefully when it grows I will get there. I will say that I did have a chemical a few months ago so I’m wondering if my mind is just subconsciously protecting my heart just in case we had another loss.