My boyfriend and his mom gets confused with me being his girlfriend and not his wife to clarify no he’s not married. I do everything around the house without a complaint even when I was pregnant with high risk I still did the laundry, cook, and clean. I do everything that he can do clearly on his own. Then when I do something wrong, too late, or too early it’s a problem. My boyfriend works long hours and he sometimes has to stay late. We have a house full we have two huskies. Plus I gave birth to our twins a couple months ago. It’s a hassle to keep up around the house from between picking up after the dogs and our twins. It’s a full time job that men don’t seem to understand even as me being his girlfriend. Not including changing, and breastfeeding twins. But he so problematic that he has to make everything a big deal no matter what I do. If I tried to have a civil conversation with him he would turn the tv up. He only talks to our dogs or kids. It’s gotten so bad that he decided to sleep in the guest house at night.

Monday night he came in to the house from working. He immediately started complaining/yelling about me for not cooking dinner to his mom on the phone. I told him “I didn’t have enough time because I had to bathe the twins put them to sleep and walk the dogs”. 30 minutes later she walks in the door her and my boyfriend explaining to me how I’m in the wrong. She clearly stated how it’s my job to please him. I know I shouldn’t have yelled at her but I was pissed I’m not the type to hold my tongue so I told them “I’m his girlfriend not his wife”. She replied “well how do you think you’ll become anyone’s wife when you can’t be a good girlfriend”.

He responded by calling me every name in the book to even saying “I’m useless all I’m good for is giving him his kids and sex” in front of his mom. I started breaking down crying he just walked out saying he was spending the night at his moms. At this point I’m thinking about leaving him I don’t know if there is a forgiving him after what he and his mom said. He’s been gone a whole week since Monday today is now Sunday. All I have is roughly around 10,000 in my savings for my kids future. I already spent half of what I saved due to quitting because of my high risk pregnancy. If you have kids than you know how expensive it is to have them living in 2019. I don’t have any close family in the states. It will be expensive and hectic to travel back home with five month year old twins by myself during this time of the year. He told me with no hesitation that if I was to ever leave him that he will hunt me down. I’m stuck in a awkward situation between leaving and staying. I wouldn’t want my kids growing up without a father. By the way he loves our kids I know he’ll never hurt them. If I go back home my family will disown me because I’ll be a single parent with two kids. My parents already have a lot on their plate my grandad is currently sick.