So i feel completely guilty but i dont want to be stuck here.

So my husband and i have decided to move. Weve been living with his parents for the past 2 years cuz california sucks and is expensive. Well we decided to move to arkansas where we have a chance to get our own house in a year or 2. We are in a studio apt with his mom who doesnt like me and his dad who can be a little controlling. Everytime i bring up that we're thinking of moving to his parents they say to wait because "We need each others help"... Yet theyve been using me for money and when i put my foot down they started having attitudes with me. Especially when my husband i stopped buying food for the house while nobody else. We even went so far as to put locks on our fridge and freezer because his older brother would steel our alcohol instead of ask. And when we would confront him about it hed lie to us but tell his mom he took it only to apologize to my husband. None of my mother in laws family will really talk to me because they dont like how im controlling our money and what we spend it on. Weve been paying off our bills and saving. Whatever we dont save goes to food and gas for the week.

I just feel guilty leaving his parents. But i dont want to change my mind because. I feel like moving away from them will be a benifit. (Examples: less fighting with family, not being treated like children when everyone doesnt get their way, and being able to save more for a house one day. Im just tired of feeling guilty and like a horrible person.