Enough is enough

After six years of investing so much time and energy into a man that I love, I finally realize that it’s time to let go. He left me for other women constantly, made me feel crazy and only used me for emotional support because he knew how much I loved him. A crippling amount, really. It’s impossible to imagine falling in love again and letting myself be hurt. I’m so scared because I have only ever been with him. How long did it take you ladies to move on from a toxic long term relationship? Need a little wisdom right now.