Is it dumb to be upset my boyfriend doesn’t call me anymore?

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I moved away for school a month ago and my boyfriend used to call me every night before bed and now he doesn’t anymore. I still see him on the weekends sometimes so I guess it isn’t really that big of a deal but it still hurts my feelings. I feel like a baby for being upset about it but I’m not sure if my feelings are warranted. Should I just bite my tongue and move on? Thank you in advance

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I meant to vote that it is NOT dumb to be upset. If my boyfriend and I didn’t talk on the phone ever (we’re long distnace), I’d be like, “why are we even dating if you don’t want to talk to me?”

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You only see him on the weekends? Yikes, I wouldn’t even date then. If he’s not putting in the effort, why should you?

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Talk to him about it and let him know how it makes you feel.

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Your not been a been a baby about it hunni, when I was in school I had a boyfriend (now ex) every weekend I wasn’t at home them weekends I would be seeing my real dad who lived quite far away and so when I was there he would be seeing another girl and sleeping with her behind my back every weekend I wasn’t home. And then in the end after he left school I ended it with him because He dropped himself in it by telling me that he been sleeping with another girl behind my back and not only that he got her pregnant and he admitted to me that he was with her the whole 3 yrs we were together and he also cheated on me with one of my friends as well when I was on holiday come back to find he was with my friend and when I told her that he never dumped me like he said she dumped him then he was hoping I was going to get back with him there and then he was so wrong. But anyway going back to you it sounds like he’s not very keen on this situation. Have you spoken to him about this ? If he’s not willing to put in the effort as well is there any point of you tow been together. Don’t ever think your been a baby about it I would be upset as well

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Is it dumb to be upset my boyfriend doesn’t call me anymore?

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