My husband and I have been together for 6 years. The sex before was great. But over the past 3 years there's been a lot less of it.. And it's because he has issues with premature ejaculation. Literally two thrusts and he's done.

When the issues started he was dealing with depression, was having some family issues and so we saw a sex therapist. It didn't help. He takes some pills to get him hard and stay hard. They get him harder but don't help him last longer.

We have tried the start stop method and having more freq sex but it's just always a few SECONDS.

He always does foreplay and uses different methods to pleasure me. But I just want to have good sex with the d.

My sex drive has reduced massively due to this and it's starting to upset me. I have communicated this with him but he just says we need to do it even more freq. I don't think it's making a diff and feel stuck. I know it's not his fault but I'm starting to wonder how sex would be with someone else. I've only ever had sex with him.

I know that's a terrible thing to even say but the mind does wander. I don't want it to affect our relationship.. We have a beautiful 4 month girl so I guess I should be grateful for that.

Anyone been through anything similar?