Hair?!?!

I’m just trying to see if I’m alone in this or what. So I have very long, straight, fine, thick hair. It barely holds a curl on a good day. It doesn’t get very knotted and if it does I can usually bush it out with my fingers...... until pregnancy #3! I have two boys and this one is a girl, now my hair hates me. I’ve never been tender headed until now. My hair gets so knotted it takes an hour or so to brush out. So I can’t really wear it down because it becomes so knotted. I’ve tried different conditioners, leave in conditioner, bought the more expensive shampoo, washed it more often, less often. Nothing is helping. And heaven forbid I try to blow dry it. Anyone else?

Don’t get me wrong there are a couple of perks. It will hold a curl and it has more body than usual.