My SO and I were arguing earlier today and in the midst of it all, he compared me to his dad’s ex wife. i don’t know too much about her but from bits and pieces I’ve heard, it’s not anything pretty.

She was super toxic, really obsessive with his dad, and was emotionally, and a few times physically, abusive towards my SO. She would leave notes telling him and his dad what “was wrong with them”, what she wanted done around the house, etc., would treat my SO differently than her own kids, and at one point made his dad choose between her and his own kids.

I know that people say things when they’re upset but this was such a low blow 😔