Long distance relationship

So my boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. He is 13hr away and he is not in the military. He is in college and he run track. Well we been talking about how we are going to see each other and he don’t want to come to where I’m at because he don’t like the state. I asked him about thanksgiving but he said that’s only a week and he don’t want to drive down here just for a week and I was like what about Christmas and he was like maybe but that’s just going to be just 2 weeks be that have games going on and I looked at there schedule on the website and they do have games scheduled round that time. He maybe spring break but he might go out with his boys and I’m just like do u might come but might see me and he said idk. I want to be with him and I don’t mind this whole long distance stuff because we making it work but I’m not going to see him much. I’m 19 and he is 21.