Do husbands not matter??

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I see on here often how women get hurt because their husband doesn't agree to something and how it should be her way. Then a million comments will follow about how she is the pregnant one and the mother so it's only up to her. I couldn't imagine not having my husbands input and making him included after all it's his baby too! Idk just curious to see how others feel since it seems like most dont care about their husbands feelings at all

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I said we work as a team... but I do have a line.  Like we decide as a team on things related to the baby and its health. However I’ve seen women who post their husband “won’t let them” get an epidural or “won’t let them/will try to force them” to breastfeed. Those things are up for discussion, but ultimately it’s what I’m comfortable with.

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You are so right. For your poll 96% agree with you but in actuality women on Glow take the side of the woman unless it’s something SEVERE that the woman is doing. For real men are pretty much always wrong and women are right, including allowing these women to keep children away from the husband/baby daddy. Honestly it’s ridiculous and if you comment in favor of the man or in anyway against the woman, you’re attacked.

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I hate seeing posts where women are dismissive of their husbands feelings. However i agree that a decision regarding a woman’s body should only be made by the woman, but decisions that have to do with the child should be made by both.

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100% team work on all things. I submit to him and try to help him in any way i can and he does everything he can to make me happy by making the decisions that will benefit and make life easy for me. It has work wonderful for us.

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I was a single mom with my daughter. It’s hard making certain decisions alone. She has high functioning autism.

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decisions about our baby get made as a team but decisions about my body and what makes me comfortable get made by me

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My husband and I always talk over things and make decisions together, but most of the time what I say goes especially when it comes to our children. I do not dismiss his feelings but he always says, “Happy wife, happy life.” 😉😂

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Is this about the woman in the delivery room? Dude it’s a woman’s birth, it’s all up to her. I would definitely take my husband’s opinion into account but ultimately I get to overrule him. He’s not the patient, I am.

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My husband matters. His opinion matters. We are a team and together we make choices. We keep an open line of communication about everything. He is my partner and a valued team member. His opinion will always matter to me. There isn’t this “my way or highway” bullshit. We we became married, we became one. We became a team and a team isn’t built of one person. 
He will always matter to me and I will always value his opinion and he thinks the same for me.

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I think when it comes to labor that’s my choice like how I said no to my mil being in the hospital room while I’m in labor and wanting rest after labor with no visitors (husband of course stays) but when it comes to the baby and family it most definitely is a team effort.

Do husbands not matter??

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