You’ve been in a relationship with a person for 3 years now. And now the romance is dying ... the small little things that he does to make you feel special start to become less and less and even the communication starts to become less and less ... and you tell your significant other that all those things are important in a relationship and you’ve told him over and over and all he wants to do it sit home and watch tv when he gets off work. Or instead of taking charge and saying hey I have this or that planned for us. Be ready when I get home. Everything is whatever I say and I don’t want the relationship to be that way. I want him to take charge and basically man up. I cook for him I clean I do the grocery shopping I give him massages when he’s had a long day at work and I just don’t feel appreciated like I should.

So would it be wrong to try and make new friends (guys or girls) to find someone to talk to besides your significant other. No matter what you say nothing is changing or for the fact that you’re around each other 24/7 and now you just want your space but you can’t because you live together. How can we get that romance back or that communication back like we use to when we first started dating or getting to know each other. I would love to have that feeling of missing him or me feeling like I can’t WAIT to see him again. I just feel like it was a mistake moving in with him

And ideas.