I've been married to my husband for 13years. We have 5 kids and want more but all he does since medically retiring from the army is sit around all day, stays outside and smokes weed. He has back, knee and shoulder injuries due to combat when he was active, so he smokes it to take his mind off the pain. But then that leaves me inside dealing with the constant fighting from our kids and makes me look like the bad guy. Our sex life isn't great, which could be some of my frustration, but so far we've only gotten it on once this month and it's always the same thing. I'm never in the mood anymore because I'm so stressed out. He bearly helps with stuff around the house. Like I'm used to being a "single" parent (after him being in the army for 10years and 3 deployments, just got used to it) but I'm starting to break. I can't handle this anymore! 😭